when he tells you he needs space - expert advice to bring your ex boyfriend back crawling

When a man tells you he needs space, it is what some would tell you is a way of breaking up with you in a gentle way. They will say that he still loves you and is trying not to hurt you anymore than is necessary. But, it still hurts and humiliates you just as much. You will be caught by surprise and all you will be able to do is cry. Later you will be angry and wish you would have ripped into him and told him a thing or two.

It is just as well that you were stunned into silence because anything you would have said would have made matters worse. In fact, it is a good thing you did not rip into him because that gives you the chance to surprise him and bring your ex boyfriend back crawling. Crying, begging or being abusive would not have made any difference, but your silence will.

Your next step to getting him back will be to continue that silence. You should act as if he does not exist and have no contact with him at all. Instead of giving him the satisfaction of seeing you lose your pride and dignity, show him that you are fine with the breakup and move on. Resume your life as it was before you met and fell in love with him.

Get reacquainted with your family that you have probably been neglecting during the relationship. Their love and support will help you heal your broken heart and regain your confidence. Find new interests to occupy your time and thoughts. Maybe a hobby that always interested you or night classes to improve your job skills. Another way of feeling useful is doing volunteer work. Helping others will give you a great feeling of accomplishment.

These activities will help keep your mind off your ex and getting him back will become less important. Giving him all the space he needs will have the opposite effect on your ex boyfriend. He will have time to remember the good parts of the relationship and begin to miss you. He will be aware of your activities and be impressed with your strength and maturity.

Men have a lot of pride and a big ego and although he regrets the breakup, he will be afraid to contact you. Your ex will fear that you might still be angry and you would reject him. This might require you to give him another nudge to make him forget his pride and his ego. You can do that by making him feel he might be losing you for good.

Get dressed so you look desirable and get some friends together for a night of fun. Stop by the places your ex hangs out and let him see you having a great time. Ignore him and flirt with some of the other guys. When he sees how desirable you are to other men, it should be enough to make him forget his pride and come back crawling.

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(saran). Submitted on Sun, 25 Dec 2011 Time: 10:26 PM

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